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A Heartfelt Call to Mom
By Christopher Heffron

Q U I C K S C A N

I’ve always believed that one of my mom’s greatest accomplishments is that she survived my upbringing without ever being whisked off to an institution. My older sister, Lauren, and I gave it our best effort but we were wholly outmatched. Mom could seldom be rattled.

In truth, I was a good kid but I was no picnic. Observe the evidence: When I was too young to govern myself, I used to rip the wigs off mannequins, halt escalators and dive into coin fountains for midwinter swims—and that was just when she took me to the shopping center. For obvious reasons, it didn’t happen that often.

Looking back, I realize that Mom never broke a sweat. Like all good mothers, she knew when to use restraint and when to reprimand. She has relied on both in my 29 years.

Indeed, it would be a shoddy world without our mothers. Regardless of our age or independence, there’s something calming about Mom’s company. Hundreds of people breeze in and out of our lives. Good mothers—and good fathers, to be sure—are some of the few who leave those crucial chapters in our personal histories.

That’s why the Memorare—the prayer to the ultimate mom—holds great significance for me.

The Memorare, Latin for “remember,” is credited to St. Bernard of Clairvaux and was popularized in the 15th century by Claude Bernard, a French priest. Its origin, however, is a flickering candle compared to the light and warmth of the prayer’s significance, which to me is a cry for relief and comfort from our universal mother.

Like all great moms, Mary was a devoted, selfless, multi-tasking specialist. To her son, she was his rock, his Band-Aid, his security blanket and his greatest fan. I think of her as the original soccer mom.

Mary certainly grew as a mother as her son grew in age and into his fated responsibilities. She suffered as he suffered, wept as he wept and had the strength and the courage to endure after he died.

Her value hasn’t lessened over time. In today’s precarious world, Mary’s quiet intervention—her protection, guidance and comfort—are what I seek. In a crisis, so often I do “fly to you.” After all, who better to shelter me from the world’s pounding storms than Mom?

My life can be a messy, complicated exercise. Problems and stresses can be like a sea of toys scattered around a child’s bedroom. Growing up, I rarely felt the need to clean my room—and very little has changed as an adult. Problems are everywhere.

The Memorare is an idyllic place to begin. It’s my dialogue with Mom. And it’s a reminder that I am one of her own—a cherished and valued middle child in her sizable brood. Certainly, the problems haven’t gone away, but I am confident and relieved now that I have her ear. I am cared for. I am at peace.

So when I find myself mired in crisis, like a child in need of some help, the Memorare will be my call. It’s my heartfelt appeal to Mom. And it is her response back to me—a way of saying as only a mother could, with a patient, hopeful smile, “Don’t be afraid. I’ll help you.”

Next month: Angel of God

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary,
that never was it known that anyone who fled
to your protection, implored your help,
or sought your intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly to you,
O Virgin of Virgins, my mother.
To you I come; before you I stand,
sinful and sorrowful.
O Mother of the Word Incarnate,
despise not my petitions,
but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen.

 

Christopher Heffron is an assistant editor and poetry editor of this publication. In 1997, he graduated with dual majors in English and Communication Arts from the College of Mount St. Joseph in Cincinnati, Ohio.


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